I'm sure that half the lads (if not most) have had pretty sh!tty upbringings. However, we all make choices; you can move on up. I don't want to sound like some Daily Mail letter-writer but I am getting f*cking heartily sick of a legion of whiney hand-wringers make excuses for every scumbag rapist, thief, killer, whatever. As we said when I was I squaddie: Why is a clitoris like an excuse? 'Cos every cnut has got one... rant over.