Good subject, now me a few of my lot frequent a lap dancing bar, lovely girls not your scrubber stuff. Now one of the lads is dating one of em on the sly. she is foreign but top draw, question could you do it knowing her job & that she had danced for your m8s??? so far he seems sweet with it but i'm not convinced... opinions boys could you do it/handle it?? again i stress lovely girls not your junkie sluts!!!
Yeah definately, would buzz off the attention and even better if she was doing porn, I never understood possessive people, negative energy. I fell head over heels with one in Praque, plotted to bring her home with me, Bardot lookalike, stunning, cost a fair wack too. In my eyes there is not much too handle and women are far different from men in how they can seperate feelings or job with real emotion.
Agree women can separate different aspects of their lives more easily than blokes but still not sure I'd be that easy with it. Maybe it's because I'm not a massive fan of the strippers, been to a few and always find that they're pretty desperate places. Know blokes who love them though, think nothing of spending an evening chucking twenties up some sorts garters, just not for me.
[quote="TheRonin"]this one is full on touching when u get to know em but i don't think i could handle it[/quote]
That would make me uneasy! Seeing someone who my mates could throw the lines - "I've molested your bird" at you? A normal lap dancer wouldn't worry me in the slightest but physical contact for £20 or so? I don't think I could do that.
NB - The first and last time I went to a lap dance bar was when Legs Eleven opened in Brum and it was £5 a dance which was a lot of money at the time! There's one in Stourbridge but have never gone there. They just don't do 'owt for me. If you need it that bad. Spend a bit extra and get a Tom.
[quote="David.Watts"][quote="TheRonin"]this one is full on touching when u get to know em but i don't think i could handle it[/quote]
That would make me uneasy! Seeing someone who my mates could throw the lines - "I've molested your bird" at you? A normal lap dancer wouldn't worry me in the slightest but physical contact for £20 or so? I don't think I could do that.
NB - The first and last time I went to a lap dance bar was when Legs Eleven opened in Brum and it was £5 a dance which was a lot of money at the time! There's one in Stourbridge but have never gone there. They just don't do 'owt for me. If you need it that bad. Spend a bit extra and get a Tom.[/quote] yeah know what your saying but so far he's happy etc
[quote="TheRonin"]this one is full on touching when u get to know em but i don't think i could handle it[/quote]
agree mate. When I worked in Montreal back in late 90's, you couldn't touch them. Some were beauty queens, absolute stunners and nice girls as well. There was one or two I'd have jumped at the chance and one of them was keen enough but when I thought of it though and watched her dancing for blokes etc.....it just wasn't for me. And that was no touching so definite no from me with touching.
And Ja - "even better if Porn"??????? Are you sure?
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[quote="TheRonin"] yeah know what your saying but so far he's happy etc[/quote]
If he's happy. Then good luck to him. As long as he's happy with it in his head too? Not worth it if he's bottling up his feeling and it suddenly all comes out. I had a mate who dated an English lap dancer.........for about 3 weeks. She was totally 'Cuckoo'. More on Fullers Earth than this Earth.
[quote="David.Watts"][quote="TheRonin"] yeah know what your saying but so far he's happy etc[/quote]
If he's happy. Then good luck to him. As long as he's happy with it in his head too? Not worth it if he's bottling up his feeling and it suddenly all comes out. I had a mate who dated an English lap dancer.........for about 3 weeks. She was totally 'Cuckoo'. More on Fullers Earth than this Earth. [/quote] When i said touching its boobs & arse grab tops, no fanny!! no kissing etc most of the girls seem to be filling time b4 getting other jobs etc from what they say but who knows. got invited to a private do in the smoke now so i'll keep you posted
I'm with ja on this, if I was single as in just doing what I wanted dating whoever etc it wouldn't bother me, I like swinging and swapping etc and I could get off on other fellas with my ex's and games, anything really as your only here once, good to sample as much as you can and do what you can, my wife however is a different story, I wouldn't do anything like that with her, I've got respect for her for starters and she's been there for me more than most partners should so I would say now it wouldn't matter if I was him
Not for me really either dont think could handle the fact someone was touching up me lass, even more so me mates, dont get me wrong they earn the money doing it, so maybe if she gave me a weekly spend then could let it go :)
Wouldn't like the fact that other blokes are touching up my missus, probably could handle it if it was just a casual fling, but if its something more like your wife or long term partner, fuck that!
[quote="TheRonin"] When i said touching its boobs & arse grab tops, no fanny!! no kissing etc most of the girls seem to be filling time b4 getting other jobs etc from what they say but who knows. got invited to a private do in the smoke now so i'll keep you posted[/quote]
That's bad enough!!!! Hahaha. If you could lift their fingerprints from any other part of her body except her hands then I'm out!
I've got a love for lap dancers, once fell in love with a Scottish brunette when I was younger, used to visit her weekly and spend a fortune. Thinking back what a Balloon I was, but jesus christ what a bird!
Still frequent certain establisment's on a regular basis, some might say I'm a dirty cunt, other's might say...
We went to this club in ibiza every night. Got to know the birds and by the end would say we were actually mates with them. They gave us their real names and facebooks etc so they must of thought we were alright.
We all had our favourites obviously and i seen the bird i liked during the day walking with ehr boyfriend so i smashed his head in with a fire extinguisher.
Well i would have but I was coming down. She said alright to me and i thought to myself that guy must be fucking raging knowing ive seen his birds snatch.
So basically no I wouldn't go out with a stripper.
Got talking to a lass in Rhino's in Sheff once, my pal went to school with her. She's set up a website called panties fantastic, it sells used underwear, lipstick, and even bottles of her piss. Shipped all over the world but mostly to Japan. Said it's bought her house and paid off her mums mortgage. Fair play to the lass, she's not even that fit
Got talking to a lass in Rhino's in Sheff once, my pal went to school with her. She's set up a website called panties fantastic, it sells used underwear, lipstick, and even bottles of her piss. Shipped all over the world but mostly to Japan. Said it's bought her house and paid off her mums mortgage. Fair play to the lass, she's not even that fit[/quote]
Luv going and one of my pals was banging one last year but it got to him in the end couldn't handle the jealousy and became a bar stand everynight....still he did mention she was a full on filthy bitch and a butt plug addict ...make of it what u will gents but I would be worried about barebacking with any of them -) ...I'm funny about what I take home for the wife to put in her gob hehehe
[quote="ryan"]We went to this club in ibiza every night. Got to know the birds and by the end would say we were actually mates with them. They gave us their real names and facebooks etc so they must of thought we were alright.
We all had our favourites obviously and i seen the bird i liked during the day walking with ehr boyfriend so i smashed his head in with a fire extinguisher.
Well i would have but I was coming down. She said alright to me and i thought to myself that guy must be fucking raging knowing ive seen his birds snatch.
So basically no I wouldn't go out with a stripper. [/quote]
I've had to break up fights at Sat. work plenty of times which have started due to boyfriends being wound up by other lads eyeing up/trying it on with their girlfriends. One lad was seeing as girl who used to be a barmaid there. And she was stunning in body and face and wore clothes that didn't hide the fact. I had to point out later that what had attracted him to her was exactly the same as what other blokes are also attracted to. He had to live with the attention she attracts or get himself a plain looking girlfriend.
Got talking to a lass in Rhino's in Sheff once, my pal went to school with her. She's set up a website called panties fantastic, it sells used underwear, lipstick, and even bottles of her piss. Shipped all over the world but mostly to Japan. Said it's bought her house and paid off her mums mortgage. Fair play to the lass, she's not even that fit[/quote]
You can't beat a good "Piss on the rocks" [/quote]
Been to one in Watford..............and it's pure tease and titillation..................you might as well spend the money on a brass .......and do your beans all over her boat rather than in your pants.
Dirty old river, must you keep rolling, Flowing into the night.......
I used to go to uni with a bird who worked in Rhino aswell Phil.
She said do you want to come for a drink where I worked (I did not know at the time), so ended up in Rhino having a beer with her then gave me a free dance, which was quite strange to say the least!
Not a overly big fan of Lap dance clubs, they are basically just prickteasers.
Im as open as the next gent along, so don't think I would be bothered about dating one. I bet they are all show and a bag of bones in the sack?
If it was a bird I was just shagging it would be buzzing!
But if it was a girl that I had feelings for, it would maybe eat away at me a little bit. I reckon that the whole they are doing it for money and not cause they care about the bloke would probably ease me a lot.
So your missus was contributing massively towards the income through doing this job. You trust her 100%, you have solid foundations and enjoy life together, have great sex. infact you have a beautiful setup, unrivals anyone, Would you chuck that away for a job?????? Maybe its more about your insecurity than the actual job....
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