I duno what to do with myself. Never dealt with a death. My Bamp and my dad are in pieces. Everyone I know is sleeping so I duno who to tell, sorry for posting it here.
Zitat von RhysI duno what to do with myself. Never dealt with a death. My Bamp and my dad are in pieces. Everyone I know is sleeping so I duno who to tell, sorry for posting it here.
Its horrible mate, i lost my grandad last year and was really close to him, i got through it thinking of how he would want me too mate. Be strong and remember all the good times you had with her and she wouldn't want you upset.
Live life to the full and enjoy, try and help people who havn't got as much as you, you never know what tomorrow will bring!!!!
Zitat von RhysI duno what to do with myself. Never dealt with a death. My Bamp and my dad are in pieces. Everyone I know is sleeping so I duno who to tell, sorry for posting it here.
Its horrible mate, i lost my grandad last year and was really close to him, i got through it thinking of how he would want me too mate. Be strong and remember all the good times you had with her and she wouldn't want you upset.
It wouldn't want you feeling like shit over him, cry, let it all out, then try and move on and enjoy your life mate. There will be times when you miss him like mad, but time heals and they will be less and less often as time passes.
Lost my grandad and grandma a few years ago witin a short space of time, smashed me to bits tbh as it was my first adult deaths , hard work sleeping and all the regrets ect came to the fore , but i no they wouldnt want me mulling around and feeling sorry for myself, then my dad said to me " we live on through are kids and grandkids,and life is to short to worry about the past,concentrate on the future" it helped me a little, few years on they are not forgotton but i have realised it is lifes way and the memories make me smile instead of reducing me to tears, head high and march on mate
Cheers lads. I just had to write it down somewhere. Just so hard to see your dad and bamp in bits.
At least she didn't suffer. Had a cold for the last week and then couldn't breath last night. Ambulance came and took just in case and they think she had a heart attack on the way to the hospital. Doctor's were questioning why she didn't go in sooner but she was old school valleys though, no chance of her going to doctors or anyone making a fuss. She was only 70, my bamp is absolutely in bits. Keeps apologising for breaking down and crying, like he's not supposed to. We own a greengrocers so my dad and bamp had to carry on with work 2 hours after she died.
I don't really do emotions so writing it down here is helping me a lot.
Sorry to hear such bad news Rhys..... head up and stay strong, like as people have said think of the good times and smile or laugh, sure she would want that more than anything !
Sorry to hear pal. Loosing someone relatively close to you is very hard. I've lost my dad this year and it always gets to me when hearing someone else going through a lose. Keep your chin up.
I lost my grandad 2 weeks ago mate and funeral was friday its hard mate but it will get easier as time goes on I know that want help how you feel right now but keep your chin.
Lost my Grandad a few years back and it really does hit hard. My nan is still alive and going strong at 90. Like everyone says remember the good times and every day/hour/minute you spend with your family is precious...so enjoy it the most you can.
Dirty old river, must you keep rolling, Flowing into the night.......
It's the shock of it all. We all prepared ourselves for my bamp to go first, thought my nan would hit 100. Acted and thought like a 20 year old. Even yesterday she was saying she wishes my bamp would hurry up so she could get herself a younger man. Only sports she loved was Tennis and cycling, funny how she goes the day Wimbledon starts.
really sorry to hear your sad news Rhys! i only ever knew one of my garandparents, me nanan Vera.....who sadley hasnt been with us for some time now...passed away when i was 16....i was devastated at the time...but now look back at the good times (she was a character our Vera!!) with fond memories and a chuckle! in time you'll be doing the same mate...
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